Take the Steps

Making the decision is Step 1

Every journey starts with the first step.  When you are looking for a lost loved one, birth parent/adoptee search or someone who owes you money and has skipped town, the first step is to make the decision to search. 

Making the decision to find a person can be very emotional and can have repercussions for your life and theirs. 

In Step 2 you will plan your strategy. 

Make your search fit into your life. You can choose to do your search primarily through the mail, visit the places you think the subject has been or do an internet search with the many public records that are available online.

Choosing records is Step 3

Your subject has left a paper trail.  Records are the best tool to help you find people.  Birth, death and marriage records are only the beginning. From city to federal records, there will be a trail you can follow to your subject.

Step 4 – Begin your search

Put it all together and combine your strategy with the records and use the resources in step 4 to begin your search.
We provide Sample letters, links to the addresses of  government offices who might have the records you need and great online resources for locating these same records very quickly.

One note here, we are not responsible for the outcome of your search, only for giving you many of the resources you need. Please use this information wisely and for the betterment of yourself and others. 
You are ready to find a person without leaving home, select step 1 from the menu on the right and begin your journey.

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County Records

Sherriff’s Office

The Sherriff is an elected official and his/her office maintains county records regarding crime, subpoenas, warrants and extensive jail records. 

This information is difficult to get to without going through the district attorney and having properly prepared requests.  Be prepared to appear in person, with an attorney and do your research about procedure first. 

Birth, Death And Marriage

When searching for these records, they can usually be located at both the county and states vital statistics office.  They can be accessed in person or by mail but be prepared to pay a fee and have the following information handy:

  • Subject’s full name
  • Gender and race
  • Subject’s parents full names including mother’s maiden name
  • Date of birth
  • Place of birth including hospital
  • Purpose for which the information is needed
  • Relationship to the subject

Birth

Anyone but an adoptee can request and receive copies of an original birth certificate. 

An adoptee will only receive an amended certificate which has all of the identifying information removed.  This includes: the names, ages and places birth of natural  parents, the name of the certifier (physician), and the name of the registrar (county). 

But for our use, there are two items which are usually not deleted and these are the official number that is filed by date of birth in each county.   An adoptee who has these two things from the amended birth certificate and knows what county he was born in may be able to search county records and match up the amended certificate with the original one and find out his/her natural birth name. 

This can be very helpful in discovering the natural parents names.

Death

To obtain death records, the first place to contact is the Social Security office.  If the subject died under normal circumstances, this is the first place contacted. 

If the subject died and was separated from his/her ID (ie driver’s license, Social Security card) the coroner’s office would make all attempts to identify him/her through fingerprints, dental records, X-rays, scars, etc.

If this fails, the subjects particulars are turned over to the  county and such records as there are remain there.  If the decedent is identified but is not claimed, the name is registered with the states vital statistics office and the information may also be retained at the county level. 

These are good places to check.

When applying for these records, plan to supply the basic information listed above except for place of birth.  Include the date and place of death if known.

Marriage

An application for a marriage certificate is the source of a lot of information:

  • full names
  • dates of birth
  • ages
  • number of marriages
  • date of last marriage
  • if the last marriage ended it will show the date
  • if it ended in divorce, annulment or death 
  • birthplace of a former spouse
  • grooms present address
  • occupations
  • type of employment
  • last grade completed
  • groom’s father’s name
  • mother’s maiden name
  • where both were born. 

The marriage certificate itself has some of this information and also includes:

  • type of ceremony
  • both parties religions
  • name of the person who performed the ceremony
  • names of the witnesses.

These records are usually filed at the county where the marriage took place and in some states you can find them in the states vital statistics office. 

Unless the couple asks that they be sealed, these are public records and should be available for a fee.

You will need to supply the basic information listed above as well as:

  • Names of both the bride and groom and any nicknames
  • Their address at the time of the marriage
  • date of marriage
  • place of marriage
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