When you make the decision to search you need to ask yourself these questions:

  • What if I decide to search and I can’t find the person?
  • What if he/she does not want to see me if I do find them? 
  • What if he/she is deceased? 
  • I am angry that he/she left me, what if I cannot control that anger? 
  • What will be the effect this person will have on my family if I do find them? 
  • What will be the effect of the search on my personal life if  I make the decision to do this search? 
  • What if I find him/her and they are not the kind of person I was hoping they would be?

These issues and many others need to be given serious consideration.

Also be aware that your feelings will change during the course of your search.

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